One of the most important decisions you’ll make during estate planning is choosing who will serve as your trustee after you pass away. For many families, the instinct is to choose a spouse, sibling, or trusted friend. On the surface, this feels natural. Who better to handle your affairs than someone who knows you best?

However, I’ve worked with numerous clients and reviewed many estate plans. I’ve seen the same challenge play out repeatedly: Asking a loved one to serve as trustee can create more burden than benefit.

Here are five reasons why naming an independent corporate trustee may serve you and your loved ones better in the long run.

1. It’s Often a Thankless Job

Managing a trust is not simple. Trustees must inventory accounts, coordinate with professionals, and handle countless administrative tasks. It can take months or even years to fully execute a trust.

Along the way, beneficiaries often grow impatient with delays, leaving the trustee caught in the middle. Despite best efforts, it’s rare that anyone appreciates the trustee for the time and sacrifice.

2. Give Loved Ones Time to Grieve

Trustees must begin performing their duties immediately following the death. This includes handling bills, locating assets, managing debts, and coordinating with attorneys and advisors. When friends or family members are the appointed trustee, these responsibilities leave little time to grieve. Choosing an independent trustee allows your loved ones to focus on what matters most—honoring your life and supporting each other.

3. Personal Risk Without Reward

Many people don’t realize that serving as a trustee carries a personal fiduciary duty. The trustee can be held personally responsible for mishandling financial affairs, even if it’s unintentional. It’s all risk, with no compensation or reward, for the family member who steps up. Corporate trustees, on the other hand, carry insurance and have experience in shouldering this responsibility.

4. Continuity With Your Professional Team

An independent trustee can seamlessly coordinate with your existing accountant, financial advisor, and estate planner. This team is already familiar with your estate planning documents and trust agreement. Meanwhile, a family member may start from scratch. An independent can keep the network of professionals you already trust in place to preserve your vision and legacy.

5. Impartial, Independent Decisions

To put it mildly, family dynamics can be complicated, especially when it comes to finances. Disputes often arise when beneficiaries request distributions for assets like cars, real estate, or business investments.

An independent, objective trustee removes the emotional element. They evaluate these decisions in line with the trust documents and the long-term health of the estate. This neutrality may help preserve family harmony by removing relatives from the “bad guy” role.

Preserving Personal Relationships and Protecting Legacies

By naming a corporate trustee, you give your loved ones the chance to simply be family. This frees them from the administrative burden and shields them from personal liability. Independent trustees bring expertise, continuity, and impartiality that most family members cannot provide.

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